So, this is your chance to ask me anything about sex, free-use, submission, sex parties, cake sits or literally anything else. I won’t promise to answer everything, but I will try to answer as much as possible fpr you.
Comment below to start the ball rolling!
Thank you George for your questions. As you haven’t used a real email address, I won’t publish your comments directly (sorry, too many spammers about), but I’m happy to answer them.
“It’s interesting that men in your stories don’t have names – they’re “Rose’s husband”.”
It is obviously a deliberate choice. I wanted the blog to be focussed on the female view of all this, rather than the male view, so I thought naming the women and then naming the men in relation to the women did apply that focus.
“I’m surprised that your group has a “second husband/others/husband” hierarchy but not a “second wife/others/wife” hierarchy. For example, if your husband is fucking you but Anna wants him, shouldn’t she take priority?”
Remember, this is about our version of free-use. The usage part is important to us women. I’ve had several questions over the last couple of years about the fact that the men are in control, and the women aren’t (and basically, your question is about the women controlling who has sex with them), and that is not what we want to do with our free-use. The whole point for us is that the men decide who, when and how we have sex, not the women. The men do the using, the women get used
I am aware of a free-use group elsewhere that does have more equal rules, and they might do something like that. But our free-use is definitely male-led and will stay that way.
What do you and other women think of men who like to be pegged. Do you think they are less masculine and a turn off. I have been pegged by my wife for 16 years now and it is what most of our sex life is at this time. I am not submissive but the act of being penetrated does kind of make me fell feminine. Is this a turn off for women.
Hello John and thanks for commenting.
I can’t speak for all women, but for us, pegging is an absolute turn on. I’ve pegged my husband for over eleven years now, and he’s been pegged a lot by Laura and Victoria, but others have pegged him too, Sara and Carla quite a bit and Paula and Nikki occasionally.
I’ve asked my husband about this, and he said it doesn’t make him feel feminine, but it does make him feel quite submissive, especially when the women get dressed up in PVC outfits and act all domme about it. The reasons we peg him are quite different.
I peg him because it is the kind of opposite closeness to him sodomising me. It is really special to me, very sensual, very loving.
Laura, Victoria, Sara and Carla are really enjoying a bit of femdom on him, and just feel they are returning what he gives to them when he fucks them.
Paula and Nikki are much softer like me, much more to the loving side rather than the femdom side, but like me, they do peg him hard. We all do.
I think we all think a man allowing us to peg him is just the most amazing thing. It is hard for a man to give control like that, and yes, to do an act that is feminine. But I’ll be honest, none of us think of it as him being more feminine. It is an act, a wonderful, hard, loving act. So the act of him being penetrated is more feminine, but none of us (including him) thinks that he is. Would it be a turn off if he did feel more feminine – nope. Not a chance. I like his more feminine side as well as his masculine side. I think a bit of both is good in a man.