So, this is your chance to ask me anything about sex, free-use, submission, sex parties, cake sits or literally anything else. I won’t promise to answer everything, but I will try to answer as much as possible fpr you.
Comment below to start the ball rolling!
Thank you George for your questions. As you haven’t used a real email address, I won’t publish your comments directly (sorry, too many spammers about), but I’m happy to answer them.
“It’s interesting that men in your stories don’t have names – they’re “Rose’s husband”.”
It is obviously a deliberate choice. I wanted the blog to be focussed on the female view of all this, rather than the male view, so I thought naming the women and then naming the men in relation to the women did apply that focus.
“I’m surprised that your group has a “second husband/others/husband” hierarchy but not a “second wife/others/wife” hierarchy. For example, if your husband is fucking you but Anna wants him, shouldn’t she take priority?”
Remember, this is about our version of free-use. The usage part is important to us women. I’ve had several questions over the last couple of years about the fact that the men are in control, and the women aren’t (and basically, your question is about the women controlling who has sex with them), and that is not what we want to do with our free-use. The whole point for us is that the men decide who, when and how we have sex, not the women. The men do the using, the women get used
I am aware of a free-use group elsewhere that does have more equal rules, and they might do something like that. But our free-use is definitely male-led and will stay that way.
Hi M. I’m intrigued by your recent posts :” His eighteenth birthday present” and ” Repaying hus debt”
I understand the group of friends you have collected, but what about these new younger additions.
How do you know about their background ? How did you bring theme in ? Is it just through general chat in the pub or is Stacey’s mum also part of your group ?
Will we know about the lads next ass fuck of your friends ?
Hi Iwill and thanks for commenting.
Ella has been in the village all her life. She first got sexually involved with us over Christmas, with the Waifs and Strays Club. She is a friend of Carla’s (who is also a life long villager), and so we got to know her from the pub, and on the back of that, she volunteered to be a waitress and fucktoy over Christmas, and then on a limited basis into the free-use group (although she’s nowhere near as limited as was negotiated).
Stacey’s boyfriend is also a life long villager, and thus Stacey turned up and got to know Ella and they became friends, and Stacey ended up at the pub too. Hanging around with Ella, she kind of knew what we were up to as a group, but she agreed to the sex exchange somewhat easily, although we know why now.
It is interesting you picked up on Stacey’s mum. She’s about the same age as the core free-use women and has been on the “heavily fucked by multiple men” train for a couple of decades. No. she’s not part of the group, but us free-use women are having a lunch next week, and she’s coming too. Will be interesting to meet her, her daughter is one fantastic lady.
You will certainly hear about my next dose of Stacey’s boyfriend. It was pretty special. Not written it yet though. I’m getting bogged down with writing. Too much fucking, not enough time to write.
Still, the second part of Repaying his debt will be there shortly.
Mira xxx
What do you and other women think of men who like to be pegged. Do you think they are less masculine and a turn off. I have been pegged by my wife for 16 years now and it is what most of our sex life is at this time. I am not submissive but the act of being penetrated does kind of make me fell feminine. Is this a turn off for women.
Hello John and thanks for commenting.
I can’t speak for all women, but for us, pegging is an absolute turn on. I’ve pegged my husband for over eleven years now, and he’s been pegged a lot by Laura and Victoria, but others have pegged him too, Sara and Carla quite a bit and Paula and Nikki occasionally.
I’ve asked my husband about this, and he said it doesn’t make him feel feminine, but it does make him feel quite submissive, especially when the women get dressed up in PVC outfits and act all domme about it. The reasons we peg him are quite different.
I peg him because it is the kind of opposite closeness to him sodomising me. It is really special to me, very sensual, very loving.
Laura, Victoria, Sara and Carla are really enjoying a bit of femdom on him, and just feel they are returning what he gives to them when he fucks them.
Paula and Nikki are much softer like me, much more to the loving side rather than the femdom side, but like me, they do peg him hard. We all do.
I think we all think a man allowing us to peg him is just the most amazing thing. It is hard for a man to give control like that, and yes, to do an act that is feminine. But I’ll be honest, none of us think of it as him being more feminine. It is an act, a wonderful, hard, loving act. So the act of him being penetrated is more feminine, but none of us (including him) thinks that he is. Would it be a turn off if he did feel more feminine – nope. Not a chance. I like his more feminine side as well as his masculine side. I think a bit of both is good in a man.
Hi KinkyMira I’m interested to hear how you arrived at this free use scenario with your wonderful group of friends, you appear to have had an open and varied sex life early on but how did it progress to the current arrangement and how do you initially broach the subject of joining the group with your friends without offending anyone who might not be interested. You are so lucky to have such a fantastic group of sexually liberated friends in such a small bill is it something in the water hehe
Sorry Mira the last paragraph won’t make sense it should read – You are so lucky to have such a fantastic group of sexually liberated friends in such a small VILLAGE is it something in the water ?
There are some older posts about it, but basically, I was in a gown at a big ball at the village hall, pantyless etc. Husband wanted to fuck me, so dragged me out into the car park to try to find a spot. Turns out there were already couples there fucking, so we joined the end of the line.
Us ladies who were fucked then turned into friends, lots of conversations, we were invited to a free-use sharing evening and after that, we went for a longer period, which was extended and then didn’t stop.
So, one choice for a risky outside fuck has opened the way for all this.
As for early on before we moved to this village, we started with sex parties with couples we knew. My husband and I had already spoken about fucking with an audience, and a boozy all-girls night got the women talking, as it turned out most of us fancied being fucked with an audience. The men sorted it out, the women put some rules in place. It started with the men fucked their own wives, but in front of everyone, and that then morphed over time in the men fucking any of the women. That’s how a lot of the others not directly in the free-use group got round us. It does help that my husband and I have pretty much the same taste in women.
There may well be something in the water. There is a lot of other fucking goes on in this village. It does have a strong sense of community!
I think I must be living in the wrong place Mira as far as I know nothing remotely like that goes on in our village!!, I wish it did as I’d love to get me and wifey involved in something a bit more sexually adventurous but we don’t fancy the swinging route and definitely don’t think any of our couple friends would be up for it. You really are very lucky to have such fantastic friends to share your sexual adventures with.
Oh yes, we are, and where we lived before, there wasn’t much going on (our shared sex was with friends from far and wide). This place has been a revelation, although I understand through third parties there are some groups in other villages in the wider area. I think sometimes you luck into the first connection, and further connections come from that. Us going for that shag behind the village hall was absolutely critical in what’s happened here, it was what introduced us to people that knew!